Violence and physical abuse
Violence isn’t just physical abuse.
It can also be throwing objects, or damaging property and the environment.
Many victims may have witnessed seeing the narcissist damaging furniture,
punching holes in walls or the throwing and smashing of objects.
And physical abuse is not only being hit, kicked or punched,
it is also being pinned down, restrained in anyway, being pushed, having objects thrown at you,
and it can include any other form of unwanted physical touch.
Violence and physical abuse can additionally include the use of weapons;
and any objects including fists can be considered as weapons.
Please safely remove yourself from the toxic situation immediately if you are experiencing violence or physical abuse.
Do not be afraid to open up and speak to trusted family members and friends,
and think about contacting professionals and police to assist you with your safety and well-being.
Have a plan and always consider your safety when are preparing to escape a threatening situation.
Unpredictable and dangerous
You cannot reason with the narcissist when they are experiencing narcissistic rage.
Anything you say or do will likely anger the narcissist more,
thus making the situation even more unpredictable and out of control.
Possibly causing more harm or irreversible damage.
Living in a world filled with many raging narcissists can make everyday living dangerous.
It can create fearful and unsafe experiences in the workplace, on our roads, in our families and in our communities and social circles.
Narcissists choose to live in and act from a dark place in their hearts.
Because their life is consumed by insecurities, jealousy, fear, anger and control;
it makes their actions negative, harmful, self-absorbed and rebellious.
They are always easily triggered into a rage.
And have no respect or cares for laws, rules or boundaries,
Most of time, you will not even understand what has triggered them.
Narcissists do not communicate their feelings;
they expect us to know what they are feeling and how we should accommodate to their needs at all times.
And they feel entitled to act out in anger when ever they feel,
thus blaming the actions and consequences of their anger on everyone else.
If they do communicate their feelings, it is often to manipulate or to shift blame.
They suppress and deny their emotions, therefore denying who they really are.
Emotions such as shame and guilt cause them pain,
and denying them allows the narcissist to avoid such hurt.
But the narc’s suppressed emotions that they never deal with, is expressed through their explosive anger.
And this is what can make their anger disproportionate to the situation.
It makes them highly unpredictable and possibly dangerous.
